Midlife Women in the Age of Miracles: Redefining Over the Hill

October 7th, 2008
How do you like hearing the words, Over the Hill? What is that supposed to mean? It has a ring that seems to say that life is on the decline. Yes, we hear that often. There are lots of jokes about how we decline with age rather than that we are finally reaching our potential and living the lives we have longed to live. Most of the people I know who have reached midlife might be considered over the hill if we think of the hill as the chase and the climb that we feel must take place when we are younger. Midlife becomes a time to stop the struggle and the need to ...

Changing Midlife Messages for Women in the Age of Miracles

October 6th, 2008
This past weekend I attended the Hay House event, I CAN DO IT in Tampa, FL.  Marianne Williamson's talk on Midlife, comparing our personal growth and change to what is happening in our world was awesome.  She gave us all hope and reminded us that we all went through criseses in our younger years and we are here to tell about it.  The doom and gloom in our 'economy' and threats of terror are the world's indication that it is going through puberty!!  Interesting concept -- and very stirring message.  If you get a chance to listen to it, I highly recommend it.  Check out Hay House offerings.  If you haven't read Marianne's latest book, The Age of Miracles, I ...

A Midlife Conversation

October 2nd, 2008
I had an interesting conversation last night with some of my friends who have a few years on me. They were excited about what I am doing. We have never really had any mentors to show us the positive aspects of aging, they both agreed. All we ever heard was - hide the wrinkles, watch the crows feet, and by all means don't go grey. What are these messages trying to tell us? It's not okay to get old? I used to think that the world was prejudiced towards men and now I am seeing a distinct prejudice toward youth. Maybe it's always been there and I never noticed it before - having been among ...

Midlife Women in the Age of Miracles: What are the mis-messages we’ve received?

September 30th, 2008
I'm reading Marianne Williamson's latest book again and it's helping to evoke some of my own ideas about midlife. Her life and mine have been very different and while we are on similar paths, we come to some different conclusions or at least different viewpoints. It's made me wonder about what YOUR viewpoints on midlife are or have been? I'm writing these days on Messages that Women, in particular, have received about midlife. As an example, I like to watch makeover shows -- -not the extreme ones -- but, things like What Not to Wear and How Do I Look. While I usually like those shows and love the way they help women with their self-esteem, one thing ...

Create Your Own Mind Movie

September 11th, 2008
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Dr. Toni’s Mind Movie

September 11th, 2008
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Dr. Toni’s Mind Movie

September 6th, 2008
Click on the download button below to watch my daily visualization movie. I'll post a message on how YOU can create your own shortly. Thanks for watching --- While you are at it, please give it a rating and post a comment on YouTube... Dr. Toni

Women in Midlife - Money and Spirituality

August 24th, 2008
For those of you who have been reading this blog for a long time, you may wonder why no messages have been coming lately. No excuse -- just an explanation -- 1. I've had some physical challenges - surgery, infections - all a call for greater wholeness in my life, I'm sure. 2. I got involved in a money making program that started to take up all my time and let myself get 'off track' to doing what I REALLY love. 3. I'm working on a number of products that many of you have been asking for - all about Money and Spirituality  --  I'm excited about these -- and you'll be hearing more shortly, I promise. So, how does this effect you -- I invite you to see ...

What You really Want, Wants You.

July 2nd, 2008
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Women in Midlife: Service is Key to Feeling Good even for women over 40

April 14th, 2008
Solace In Service Doing For Others When we feel bad, often our first instinct is to isolate ourselves and focus on what’s upsetting us. Sometimes we really do need some downtime, but many times the best way to get out of the blues quickly is to turn our attention to other people. In being of service to others, paradoxically, we often find answers to our own questions and solutions to our own problems. We also end up feeling more connected to the people around us, as well as empowered by the experience of helping someone. When we reach out to people we can help, we confirm that we are not alone in our own need for support and inspiration, and we also remind ...